nggak ada judul.......:-)

berani mengambil keputusan apa yang akan dilakukan selanjutnya, setelah lama berada dalam keadaan nyaman, tidak banyak orang bisa melakukan,
tidak dibatasi gender apa loe perempuan atau laki-laki,
berusaha menjalani kehidupan sendiri bukan mengikuti kehidupan orang lain, itu punya mau kebanyakan orang,
tapi pada banyak kenyataannya kita menjalani hidup seperti itu,
menjalani pola kehidupan yang sudah tersistem sedemikian rupa secara berkelanjutan,
sistem itu baik buat hidup teratur, nggak berantakan, bla..
bagaimana daya juang bisa dibangunkan di tengah kenyamanan sebuah sistem?
kapan daya juang seseorang terusik? ketika kenyamanannya terusik? atau keinginannya untuk berubah?
keberhasilan dimaknai dengan beragam pengertian tiap kepala punya pendapatnya masing-masing,
ada yang dimaknai dengan kurang lebih:
punya visi yang besar, bisa mengembangkan luas usahanya untuk seorang pengusaha,
bisa buat anak didiknya pintar dan memiliki nilai-nilai luhur untuk seorang pendidik,
bisa mencukupi dan mengayomi keluarganya untuk seorang ayah,
bisa menyayangi dengan kasih tulus untuk seorang ibu,
bisa saling setia, mengisi dan mengerti untuk pasturi,
mengerti arti persahabatan dalam pertemanan,
bisa memberikan suatu nilai yang berbeda menjadi insiprasi untuk orang lain,
dan masih banyak lagi makna berhasil buat tiap orang ...........
jadi apa hubungannya antara membuat keputusan, kenyamanan dan keberhasilan ?
adakah juga didalamnya rasa takut dan berani.
apakah rasa takut harus dihilangkan baru seseorang berani bertindak atau
berani adalah tindakan dari penguasaan ketakutan bukan dari peniadaan ketakutan, untuk memulai segala sesuatu?

Bobby, our dog

bobby
bobby is a dog
it had been 14 years with our family
it is a smart dog
it died yesterday morning
my brother told me when i returned home from work
i didn't cry but at night i did
they told me it died with no pain just slept
every morning we have family player, bobby always accompanying us
we love him (we treated "him" as human being)
i miss bobby.

Apologize

busy.....................buzzz..................

2008

i have no time for my self. Everyday fills with work and work. A routine job days that i did day by day like a year ago when i still worked at my previous employeer.

My latest apperance

smile
smile bring happiness
keep smiling
don't worry be happy

Thank You

Thank you to everyone i have met along the journey of my life,
who gave happiness, sorrow, bitterness, hatred, etc.,
everything that have happened to my life has meaning.
Hopefully i can draw my self nearer to the true of me
according to the way He pictured me at the very first place.
I would like to try many things while others master just only one.
I meet this man, who talked about mastering one subject.
I said he is right.
Trying as many subjects as you wish and like with determination,
I can't say this is wrong.
Many thoughts, opinions, ideas, etc., which have turned me to be
who I am today.
I can't look back to yesterday,
I can't change the history journey of my life,
I can't curse the people who insulted, harassed, humiliated, mocked me,
because i am not the creator of this universe,
who has saved me to have my self completely with
dignity and pride as a female and human being with honor.
I can't keep the broken heart forever,
because this heart of mine belongs to The One,
until at the time I'll share it with "the one":-)
He helps me to forgive them but
still the memories remind inside.
Nothing have been taken away from me,
because He didn't let bad things happen to me.
I believe and trust that.
We learn things from bad and good experience,
ours or others.
From now on,
all i can do is to make a brand new ending,
because going back to yesterday is not the answer.
I am asking for strength to walk and color the half of my next journey.
Thank You.

just mumbling inside, what an attitude, heh...

Just Mumbling

Unnecessary stuff :-)

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I delete my photograph, I don’t think I have to put it, beside who want to visit this public blog of mine, even I did tell some friends, I really don’t expect they will drop by… . my blog just a boring stuff…. Ha…ha…..

I am planning to delete, Tuhan, my name, left behind note and my cousin’s blog topic.

But hey, why should I?

It is all about though, idea, opinion, stupidity of mine, etc.

Have I……… or am I confused?

Have I valued my life the whole?

Have I colored my life fully?

Have I tried my very best not to let my self disappointed?

Have I …….

How many times I’ve questioned my self with questions that I can’t really sure answer the whole of questions that have been big questions mark in my head.

I am not sure how will I end my journey of life.

Many males and females will think, write, say, experience that, they grow as a child, teenage, adult, committed partner, suffered, happy, get apart because of divorce or death, the end, ……. bip…bip…, continue to the next level of ……. I don’t know what we say it in “human word”………..

Let’s jump to ……

I am confused of my self, damn *%$#@, crazy to busying my self with a job/jobs, when it/them arrive/s at my doors, I lost my curiosity and spirit, the mood just gone and disappear , or I haven’t come to the stage of urgency. Damn *&%$#@

I just want to eat my self… what?

Who do you think you are………..?

Who do I think I am….?

I worked for a small institution, I like to work there, not with the salary but with what I did there, but I had to go, several times they contacted me, but I lost my bounds.

Then worked for a big company, people said. I was lucky they said, after years, again I had to go. I love my work mates but only some of them I believe who felt and treated me the same.

Several months went by, I met a very charming and warm lady from a company that I applied, she was so interested in me to join the company, and damn&^%$#@ I didn’t know what’s wrong with me I refused it, I did know the work place and mates are nice.

Gee was I crazy? that was what happened. I love this one.

I met this lady several months ago, and said she doesn’t want anyone who works for her doing the profession as a stepping stone. I didn’t get angry, because I am not as a person she assumed, I just laugh and said inside whom do you think you are, what did you do? I believe you’ve been left behind by many of your potential employees. I believe you just too rich not to know how they are struggling for their life, spoil rich woman (how mad I am typing all this, or am I being prejudice to her?) and all I gained that I reported done and paid by my self not by sponsored, not trying to show up but I was very disappointed by her assumption, such bad witch of her. I didn’t defense my self; I just let her won with her wrong assumption. BTW, why should I take all of this to be written?

I met this middle age woman, and how frustrated I was, I felt that I went back to colonialism and Japan era of slavery in Indonesia. Well, she is not that bad, gave a very good understanding by letting me finishing my tasks outside works and follow it with works, but the results and efforts that I will give not even equal. She is nice but it was just diplomacy.

I know that happiness, successful, failure; etc is in the state of mind. But when I will find, do and act to find the match work with dream, since I still have no guts to create it by my self, if I am still confuse with my self.

As the matter of fact I am a person with full dedication when I decided to do things, teachable, and not asking much, but when it turns to unfulfilled promises, unappreciated, betrayed, I will say goodbye, bad attitude, heh…. Or it is just so humane….

November 5, 2007

Now, I am in a state of urgency, yeah !! at last after not engaged with any institutions for months. Lesson from life have taught me a lot. Well I still have to learn many things, life is “an undending learning process”.

What a heck with unpleasant condition, co workers, boss, etc. It’s all in the state of mine. Dream, ask and act, you’ll get what you want. Your desire is my command.

You deserves to get and receive your happiness, what you have to do just forgive others and yourself, let go all bitterness and misery from the past and all new blesses and gifts come to you.

So many times most of us almost all of us, human being treated unfair by ourselves. You wish and dream good things but you ask the opposite, you have to change that attitude. You deserve more, dream, ask and act, and all will be provided for you. I am learning to change the way I think, I believe that my life is beautiful, I believe that I deserve to receive and have my happiness, live my live abundantly.

Thank you.

be always smart and young at heart, monica.